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• Pamela Anderson explains her now-infamous sex tape to her kids (Webster's Is My Bitch)

• Sarah McLachlan and husband split after 11 years (Yahoo! news)

• Kanye West arrested for vandalism (TMZ)

• This week in reality television: soundbytes (Mollygood)

• Backstage demands: Kid Rock requires Chap Stick at VMA's (I'm Not Obsessed)

• Jessica Alba cleans up nicely (IDLYITW)

• Elizabeth Taylor hits up a gar bar (People)

• Ashton Kutcher has a gossip blog (Celebitchy)

• Katie Holmes needs to hem her pants (Gawker)

• Tara Reid engaged...or not? (US)

• J-Lo bails on Project Runway finale (MSNBC)